Showing posts with label books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label books. Show all posts

Friday, March 30, 2012

T.G.I.F. Indeed!

There are two very important facts that I need to make clear in order for this post to make sense.


Fact Number One: I am NOT a huge Nicholas Sparks fan.


Before you start to throw your Cheerios at your computer monitor let me explain. I wanted to be a Nicholas Sparks fan. You see, he moved to New Bern, NC, shortly after the success of his first novel. And that happens to be a little town in the same county where my husband grew up. So you see, Sparks is the resident celebrity in Pamlico County. So, when I finally picked up one of his books (I chose "Message in a Bottle"), I wanted it to be really really really good. 


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It wasn't really really really good.



STOP throwing Cheerios, people!


In truth, the writing wasn't horrible. I'll give him that. But there were scenes in the book that I knew were specifically written to force me to feel something: sadness, anticipation, hope, deep desperation. I felt like Sparks, as an author, was pushing me to go the places he wanted me to go, rather than leading me there with good storytelling. And when it got to the end...well, I felt cheated and angry. Like I'd wasted my time.


I haven't read another Nicholas Sparks book since.


(Confession: I did see The Notebook. And it was a good movie. But I won't read the book. I also saw Nights in Rodanthe. I wanted to strangle Sparks after that one, too.)


Fact Number Two: I'm a musical junkie.


This you should already know, if you've been reading Abby Gabs for any length of time. It doesn't take much to pull me in to a television series or a movie if there's singing and dancing involved. 


Rewind to 2007. I'm watching the Oprah Winfrey show, and she's interviewing her bestie, John Travolta, about the upcoming revival of "Hairspray." I was psyched about it from that point on. And a few months later, with the release of the movie, I was introduced to Zac Efron for the very first time.


Ok, that's a total lie. I already knew about Zac Efron. And I might have also already known all the words from High School Musical...


What? Don't judge me. Musical junkie, remember?


At any rate, I loved Zac Efron before Zac Efron was cool. It didn't bother me that he was young enough to be...well...my significantly younger brother. I thought he was adorable, and talented, and adorable...


Ahem.


Anyway, to say that I'm an Efron fan might be considered a slight understatement.


Bringing it back to modern day, I recently saw a trailer for a movie that I'm dying to see. Starring Zac Efron. Based on a book written by Nicholas Sparks. And because I love my readers, I'm sharing the trailer for The Lucky One here today.




There are two very important statements I need to make in order to close this post efficiently.


Statement Number One: Wow. Somebody grew up. Hello, Zac Efron.


Statement Number Two: TGIF, indeed!


If any of you have read The Lucky One by Nicolas Sparks, please warn me ahead of time if someone dies. Particularly if it's Zac's character, the love of his life, his mother, his dog, his ailing grandparents, the child, or anyone else. I know Nicky's M.O. I'd rather be warned. Thanks a million!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

My Brain Won't Do What I Tell It To

My job requires occasional confrontations. Not the pleasant kind that leave you feeling all warm and fuzzy, but the kind that makes you want to close yourself into a quiet room and scream into a pillow. I've done a lot to try and curb the "Insta-Rage" that comes along with dealing with rude, sullen, hateful people. My latest idea....meditation.


"Abby," I said to myself, "you should try to learn how to meditate. Yeah. That's a GREAT idea. You know, learn to zero in on silencing your mind, quieting your anger, summon some patience."


Great! Fantastic! It's an idea, let's make it happen! So I bought a book.


(This should not surprise you. I've mentioned before that I'm an avid reader, and I believe in at least 2 other previous posts I've bought a book to solve a problem. The book store is my proverbial therapist.)


So, I'm reading this book...




And I'm learning a lot of stuff. The origin of meditation, who uses it and who doesn't, what to expect when expecting  the first time you try to quiet your mind, etc. Then I get to the first exercise.


"Sit and relax. Close your eyes and turn your attention inward...Watch the thoughts that pass through your awareness...Don't judge them, or attempt to hang on to them. Just watch. Notice the nature and content of your thoughts.."




I've totally got this. Meditation isn't so hard. I'm practically a freakin' guru already. Okie dokie, moving on....


"Notice how one thought leads to another, and how quickly a chain of associations is set up. Notice how these associations sometimes follow a single theme, or go off at a tangent into a quite different set of considerations. Notice how intent your mind seems on distracting your attention..."



Abby's stream of thoughts, decoded: To set the tone...for some reason the first thought that pops into my head is of that recent Nissan commercial with the polar bear, which always makes me sad. Global warming is not cool...And for that matter, we really need some world peace up in here, too...Hmmm. What should I make for dinner tonight? Maybe a nice grilled chicken with some roasted potatoes. Or B might like some steak caesar....Is my phone ringing? No, wait, I imagined that. I wonder what's going to happen next on Gilmore Girls? Lorelai just up and left the hunky teacher...but she should really be with Luke anyway. OMG---is today the 16th? It IS...I have a hair appointment with LeeAnn at 5. Shoot. I've got to finish up this blog, and fast....What should I blog about tomorrow? Cats? Facebook? Flowers? I like flowers. Man, I could really go for a huge cheeseburger right about now. Ooooh....cheeseburger from Five Guys...NO! No cheeseburgers!! I'm eating healthy, remember!?!?


Wow. That was intense. I mean, I know I think a lot, but how am I supposed to shut my brain up long enough to actually find my "calm and peaceful center?" Well, let's see what the next step is...the book will tell me what to do.


"Try not to hang on to pleasant thoughts, or push unpleasant ones away. Just watch. Now go one step further and ask yourself, "Who is it who is watching?"




Yep. Ya lost me, Dr. Fontana. 

Maybe meditation's not for me.





*All of today's quotes were pulled from "Learn to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Self-Discovery and Fulfillment" by David Fontana, PhD. I'm sure he's totally qualified and knows exactly what he's talking about, so if you read this, David, don't sue me for having the opinion that basic meditation philosophy may be lost on me and my cluttered brain.*